Ok. Jeremy, thank you very much, I hear you. You don't want to talk about the US elections anymore because it's time for healing.
Because you are an empath and a young man of high integrity, I'm going to respect your wishes and no longer post anything substantial (if any) in this thread.
However, the point that I would like to make to you categorically is to continue to use your pendulum whenever it is appropriate. Don't pay attention to how other people feel about it. With very little or no personal integrity, most of them are not in a position to judge you.
Your moral and personal integrity compasses are very high, and that's wonderful! So, keep listening to your inner voice/gut feelings. With time you will get to the point where you no longer need a pendulum, because you yourself will become a pendulum and the information will be provided to you directly.
Take care of yourself.