Yea, it's a real doozy. Totally.
It's been difficult to have to keep quiet most of my life. But I'm lucky now, I have some people around me who are much more aware and also have been researching, so that I can learn what they found out and, well, they can learn what I have found out, if they want to listen.
See, we're dealing here with ingrained belief systems that the person is usually not even aware that they have. When you try to tell them something, which you know is real, because of the evidence you've found, personally, as well as collectively through your research, and if it doesn't fit into the structure they're at, in the moment you tell them, then you will find they are blocking it out and replacing it with only what they HAVE learned. They couldn't fit something into place which they only have organized so far a smaller percentage of knowlege, because it would overwhelm them and they may not be able to function balancedly. That's why you don't force thoughts upon another. You just set it down as a "seed" for later, if, or when, they get to that part. And when they finally do get to that part, you don't go lording it over on them, because that is destructive. You just smooth right in, and continue the conversation. And if the person is a truly good person, they'll recognize that they were in the dark before, and thank you for helping them to see further, once they get to that part you've shown them which got them further, because now they have more evidence, since you seeded it, to see the larger picture.
It's sort of like being that one in the crowd, haha, who feels alone. But that also will help you to strengthen, and to learn more skills, whether getting more knowledge, or how to bring that knowledge, and what knowledge TO bring, to those around you.
I'm so grateful that people are waking up to this....stuff! It's really very difficult learning how much evil has been going on under our noses. It's just SO horrible. You really want to take it one step at a time. For yourself, as well as for others. You know?