Quote by @Linda:
"Fake relationships are alive because many don't understand unconditional love."
In nature, unconditional love only exists between parents and their children. The love between adults always is conditional, because the condition for true love is to not hurt your partner (and others).
This means: In order to be able to learn how true love works, children need unconditional love in their childhood.
This is called "love indoctrination", as explained in this video:
You don't have to indoctrinate children to love, they love their parents anyway, but this world we get the Alien love bites...it's not real luv....it's the love bites trying to make it real as in 'unconditional love' which means no boundries like no matter what you do they love you, and must be 'ok' with it because it's unconditional love. Indoctrination is programming.
I see it as this, for people everywhere, whether you are a parent or not. Service to self or service to others ? A choice ? A way to ground yourself ? Being real ? So if to be real is to place yourself first, then you can help others ? OR are we far too real and far too advanced to reach out ? Perspective me is thinking. Ones moral compass ? Feelings ? No feelings ? Marriage/Relationships require great psychologically to navigate them waters..another trap ? Another dumb us down prison rule ? See how convoluted the whole thing is....I have worked inside real prison systems...there are systems, set up inside systems, to teach you more lessons of obedience to the main frame, the big house, Earth. Everything is designed to keep us looping around, trying to find a truth, so we spend our lives trying to make sense of it all and then to die still in unconditional ignorance ?
BINGO LINDA....
you are the next contestant....if you can answer the one thing.....what is the 'one thing' for you, for anyone?
This reality is a false light/false dark game of souls, and we are just the pawns. We pay for our prison, just a racket, like prison is a racket. down to the earthy prison and the jails that have many people in it and they can't even get basic needs, and have to have money put on their commissary just to get expensive $8 bottle of shampoo that costs a $1 in the dollar store. The controllers make money off of loosh, selling it and humans to those in the business of space time. The matrix construct is one big racket...and only we are clueless, well, at least most of humanity is, there's no one coming to save us, we don't need saviors, that's the trick.
So in the meantime, once we figure out how to get our memories back, and to unite, use our power to destroy the machine, we just have to not FEED THEM...notice the sims running in your life. I've seen mine. I can't starve kitties to death and I can't be awake 24/7 like I wished I could since feeding kitties is now a night time venture. Do you notice patterns in your life? Things that keep popping up and notice they are the same themes. That is what you contracted for, so ripping up those life contracts, and countering the sims, do feed into the drama. Stand up and laugh at it, nice try mo fo! LOL
Exactly - Awareness is everything. It’s like watching a horse race. The horse is waiting to go, to race and get to the finish line, but for those within farsight, we already have watched the race and know who’s won. 🏆 LOL 😂 it’s us we won. Now all we do is go through the motions of every little fing is going to be ok LOL the sparks are divine.
"You don't have to indoctrinate children to love, they love their parents anyway"
This is false.
Children are bound to their parents by instinct. This isn't love. It's a necessity for the children to survive.
Most parents love their children. It's not necessary for survival, but they do it anyways.
The children's capacity to incorporate love is activated when the parents love unconditionally, meaning they are ready to forgive the child when it makes mistakes. Why is that important? Because the child doesn't know the mistakes. It has no experience.
This process of loving the child unconditionally teaches the child how to deal with mistakes. The child learns that it is worth of being loved even if it's not perfect. It doesn't know that by birth. As I said, this isn't necessary for survival. But it's necessary for understanding true freedom.
Of course, but also that parents aren't perfect, they all make mistakes, but children love their parents anyway, usually if they're not abusive or just down right evil. Public education teaches kids to hate their parents, the social conditioning, programming is set up for children to hate and get away from parents as soon as they can. If the parents did their best in raising them, and suggest they don't put them in public school system, home school and just do your best to show them you love them but want to help them manage their lives as in adulting. Of course it don't know this at birth, I'm not talking about children loving their parents when they aren't even conscious of being alive or anything to do with their minds and hearts. For the most part, when children grow up to be adults, love their parents and especially more so understand when they become parents.
Luv is a verb.