Okay, let's talk about how the society of the good ETs works.
I don't want to ask this telepathically. Instead, I want Farsight to ask this in the next Board Meeting:
Dear free will ETs, how do you organize your protective forces, like military and police? Do you have a hierarchy where members have to obey orders coming from the top? Do you enforce obedience by applying threats and violence? And if you don't do that, why does your military and police still work?
Those are crucial questions. This is a request for authentic public communication in order to learn from each other.
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If you still don't know why these questions are crucial, watch this presentation: