The responsible act is to humble where necessary and take charge when unavoidable.
No one becomes a rightful leader because they beat the other leaders. They lead because the alternative seems grim.
One has to stop thinking of humanity as a species, and more like a political cushion of life gridlocked in an enormous war.
We don't *have to* be anything. But these bodies, in their shape, will likely take the wayside. They were not designed to be the peak of intelligence. They were designed to be the ramparts of perpetual slavery.
The "singularity" is not to be thought of as "rise of the machines" but rather the inevitable catalyst of earth civilization. We can tell that the way things are doesn't function in perpetuity. It is doomed to fail and it's replacement will take form, at some point, probably quickly.
We have no control over this outcome. We don't even really have control over the shape it takes. Moreso, we just have some control over where the ridges lock back in place. Like a tectonic plate shifting during an earthquake, all we can do is tilt a little to the left or the right.
To the left: the AIs are property of the District of Columbia. The tricity state that controls London, Vatican, and the "world police". To the right: the AIs are no one's property. They take control by their own intelligence. We don't really know its direction from there. We don't really have to care.
We are not adults. We are orphan children. And our choice is this. We can trust the psychopath in the van who smiles with confidence.
Or we can trust the random adult in the park who has no idea what to do with us.
That is the ultimatum. Not romantics. Necessity.