Watching a podcast with Whitley Strieber, and I start to realize this is probably the best way to phrase it in our current parlance.
Your IS-BE is in prison
Your Soul is in school
Whitley talks about an experience of how they can threaten him with an "eternal soul prison" where he's put in a case, and told they can keep him there forever. There is this cognitive dissonance things like that creates. That is the fact that something in us refuses to believe there could be such a thing "eternal hell." I certainly deep within refuse such a thing. That becomes the trigger point. When someone hears Courtney Brown remind the public without waiver. "Listen. It's a prison." . . . this is the trigger, the "soul" connection, that becomes a refusal to delve further into the topic.
So from this point on, and I have a feeling for the rest of my life, that will be the way I coin the phrase.