Quote from the latest Spotlight titled "The History of the Galaxy - Volume 1":

[9:50] "The ETs that we work with – we call them the good ETs – they want everyone to know that they want to meet with people."

Okay, I'm fine with that.

But we have to clarify what "meet" means:

To me, a meeting is when people gather in person. Physically. It's not an invisible guy sitting in a visible chair.

Why is that important?

Because when we meet inside my head, or in dreams, I can't prove to others that you are real in a physical sense.

Being real physically – being touchable – proves something that is important to me: When you are physically there, you are not only able to exert physical power that could be necessary to protect me from bad people who want to harm me physically. It also proves that you are willing to do so.

And that's what I need.

I don't need non-physical people in my life, because they can't be real friends.